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Part II: Strategy Chapter 4: Polarization You are going to be incompatible with most of the women in the world and to hold any hopes of being highly compatible with most is an illusion of grandeur and a figment of your own narcissistic tendency. With most of the women you meet, things are simply not going to work no matter what you do or say. The uncomfortable truth is that the majority of women are going to have high degrees of friction and projection when you meet them.

Friction is when a woman finds you to be an attractive man, but there are value differences or external circumstances that prevent her from acting on that attraction or being interested in you.

You are simply expressing your thoughts and feelings as they come to you, without inhibition, without shame. That means everything you say and do must be done without any ulterior motive.

Vulnerability requires honesty, and honesty only works if it’s given unconditionally, with no strings attached.

The more nervous it makes you, the better, because it means you’re being authentic and making yourself vulnerable. You say it because you mean it and mean it because you say it.

So the catch is that everything you say must be as authentic as possible.

A non-needy man is comfortable showing his flaws because he’s more comfortable with how he feels about himself than how others feel about him.A man who’s able to make himself vulnerable is saying to the world, "Screw the repercussions this is who I am, and I refuse to be anyone else." He’s saying he is non-needy and high status. Vulnerability represents a form of power, a deep and subtle form of power.Not just emotional vulnerability (although we’ll get to that), but physical vulnerability, social vulnerability. I want you to think of vulnerability in a more broad way.Take care of yourself and those who are important to you. The only real dating advice is self-improvement.Seduction is the process by which a man induces a woman to become as invested in him as he is in her.A man's attractiveness is inversely proportional to how needy he is.The polarizing stance is the best thing in the book, and it was way better and easier to understand when Brad P (the NYC rocker/PUA) said it.Notes Part I: Reality Chapter 1: Non-Neediness He meets all those tropical MBA/Tim Ferriss wannabe guys, and that's the Mark he became. At some point he moves to Thailand or the Philippines and writes Models.

He talks about growing up a rich kid, reading The mystery method, but after his buddy kills himself, he ends getting drunk and drugging his way through sex in America. His main audience hasn't read models, and like a lot of PUAs, there is a shit ton more money on self help than helping guys get laid. His other book, "the subtle art of not giving a fuck" is basically an expansion and reflection on his time doing pickup, if you know what to read for. Basically take me as I am.Ģ) In his mind, girls test guys for no good reason, and you should avoid all girls who test. 1) Be polarizing - which means you say stuff to girls and not care what their response is.